A heartbreaking funeral was held for 12-year-old Shivan Cumberlege at the River Range Ranch in Verulam, where family, teachers, and classmates paid tribute to the young boy who was found hanged from the rafter of his home with his mother’s sari.
The Grade 3, Parkgate Primary School pupil, was described as a kind and helpful child with a gentle spirit. Principal of Parkgate Primary School, Mrs V Eraman, said: “Shivan was a child whose presence brought light hope and a sense of promise to our school community. The tragedy of losing Shivan is difficult to put into words. And our hearts are heavy with grief. No parent, guardian or family should ever have to face such heartbreaking loss.”
Understanding the Importance of Parental Care
According to the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF), children require proper care and attention from their parents to develop into healthy and well-adjusted individuals. Pastor Gregory Moonsamy, who spoke at the funeral, emphasized the need for parents to take care of their children, saying: “Children are a gift from God, and with gifts from God, we know that we have a responsibility to take care of them and bring them up.”
Joeleen Chetty, Shivan’s neighbor, described him as a wonderful and respectful child who was always willing to help. “Anything you asked him, he was always willing to help. He was a friendly child with our kids, and he was full of laughter. He took care of his siblings like he was a parent to them,” Chetty said.
Supporting Children in Need
For children who are struggling with emotional or psychological issues, there are resources available to help. The South African National AIDS Council (SANAC) provides support and counseling services for children and families in need.
Some ways to support children in need include:
- Providing a safe and nurturing environment
- Encouraging open communication and emotional expression
- Seeking professional help when needed
- Supporting organizations that provide resources and services for children
By working together, we can help prevent tragedies like Shivan’s death and ensure that all children in South Africa receive the care and support they deserve.
